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Out of Court Solutions and Contract Drafting Services

Collaborative Divorce

Separation Agreements

Separation Agreements

The Collaborative Divorce Process empowers couples to resolve disputes respectfully without going to court. In this process, Irene represents one spouse, and the other spouse is represented by a Collaboratively-trained attorney. Using a professional team approach, including Collaboratively-trained attorneys for each client, a neutral divo

The Collaborative Divorce Process empowers couples to resolve disputes respectfully without going to court. In this process, Irene represents one spouse, and the other spouse is represented by a Collaboratively-trained attorney. Using a professional team approach, including Collaboratively-trained attorneys for each client, a neutral divorce coach and financial expert, this process takes into account what is important to each spouse and their children to promote a lasting and healthy resolution for the whole family. 

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Separation Agreements

Separation Agreements

Separation Agreements

If you and your partner have agreed on all issues related to your separation and divorce, one spouse can hire Irene to represent that spouse to draft the legally binding settlement documents with terms resolving property division, child custody, child support, spousal support and other issues arising out of the marriage. It is important t

If you and your partner have agreed on all issues related to your separation and divorce, one spouse can hire Irene to represent that spouse to draft the legally binding settlement documents with terms resolving property division, child custody, child support, spousal support and other issues arising out of the marriage. It is important to know that even if you and your spouse are in agreement, the NC State Bar prohibits one attorney from representing both spouses, and therefore only one spouse can hire Irene for drafting services.

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Premarital Agreements

Separation Agreements

Postnuptial Agreements

Whether or not you realize it, the law will step into your marriage on day one. Without a Premarital Agreement, NC default laws will dictate how assets and debts are divided and distributed in the event of a divorce or death, and control other rights and entitlements married couples enjoy. Knowing what a Premarital Agreement can and canno

Whether or not you realize it, the law will step into your marriage on day one. Without a Premarital Agreement, NC default laws will dictate how assets and debts are divided and distributed in the event of a divorce or death, and control other rights and entitlements married couples enjoy. Knowing what a Premarital Agreement can and cannot accomplish if the couple breaks up, or if one spouse dies during the marriage, is crucial to ensuring you have an intentional plan for a secure future.

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Postnuptial Agreements

Postnuptial Agreements

Postnuptial Agreements

Sometimes issues arise during the marriage that require spouses to make certain agreements during the marriage. With a customized Postnuptial Agreement, you can have a legally binding contract during your relationship to support the security of your future, to allay concerns that have come to the surface in your marriage, and to avoid costly disagreements in the future. 

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Cohabitation Agreements

Postnuptial Agreements

Cohabitation Agreements

There are no NC laws that specifically protect unmarried couples, which means your rights are not automatically defined if you live together.  A Cohabitation Agreement is a legally binding contract between unmarried partners, setting out your rights and responsibilities during your relationship, and in the event it ends in a parting or by death of one partner. 

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Irene as your Mediator

Postnuptial Agreements

Cohabitation Agreements

Irene is a skilled and seasoned NC Dispute Resolution Commission Certified Family Financial Mediator and Superior Court Mediator with years of experience resolving family law disputes as a neutral facilitator.  Click on the Mediation tab in the navigation bar to learn more about the Mediation process and to schedule with Irene as your neutral.  

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Collaborative Divorce

A litigated divorce is a traumatic, costly, antiquated and ineffective way to address the end of a marriage. The court system focuses on dismantling the past, finding fault, and encouraging gamesmanship by declaring one spouse the winner and the other spouse the loser in a public battle. Everyone loses in court, especially children. 


The Collaborative Divorce process empowers couples to privately negotiate and resolve conflict outside of the court process with the guidance of a skilled team of professionals. 


In the Collaborative Divorce process, each spouse is represented by their own Collaboratively-trained attorney who is fully committed to a problem-solving approach.  


All participants commit in writing to never threaten or go to court. 


Through a series of private and confidential meetings, you, your spouse, your respective attorneys, and neutral experts, work together in interest-based negotiations to navigate the emotions and conflict of divorce to reach a lasting, balanced resolution. 


While divorce is inherently stressful, choosing Collaborative means you have chosen a responsible, cost-effective and highly effective, dignified approach to navigate through the divorce and move forward to the next chapter of your life. 

Separation Agreements

Irene is a highly skilled document drafter with extensive experience crafting and negotiating settlement documents that resolve all issues, from simple property distribution matters to complex and nuanced child custody matters.  If you and your spouse have reached an agreement between yourselves, one spouse can consult with and hire Irene to draft the legally binding settlement documents on behalf of that spouse.  


When couples are in agreement, they often think that they can hire one attorney to work with both spouses to draft the legally binding settlement documents.  It is important to know that the NC State Bar does not allow one attorney to draft settlement documents on behalf of the couple.  The NC State Bar mandates that all NC lawyers are prohibited from drafting settlement documents for both spouses, even if both spouses are 100% on the same page, cooperative, and in agreement that the attorney would simply be putting the terms agreed on by the couple in a legally finding format.  This scenario presents an unwaivable conflict of interest, and therefore only one spouse may hire Irene to draft settlement documents on behalf of that spouse, and the other spouse can choose to obtain independent counsel.


Irene's intention in her practice is to serve the highest goals of the family and to promote the healthiest resolution possible, so even though she can only consult with and represent one spouse in the preparation of settlement documents, she is committed to working with one spouse to formalize the terms the couple has worked out themselves.

Premarital Agreements

Being intentional by anticipating and planning your financial future in your relationship is a highly effective way to ensure a solid foundation for mutual decision-making, avoiding disagreements, and securing the sustainability of your relationship.  


Irene has extensive experience negotiating and drafting Premarital Agreements at a very high level. She will guide you on the complex laws that will step into your marriage on day one, educate you about the various options you should consider in crafting and customizing an agreement, teach you how to have the unromantic conversations with your fiancé about the important topics, draft a contract that is appropriate for your circumstances, and walk alongside you through each step from start to finish well before your wedding day. 


Irene is a frequent speaker and educator of attorneys across the State on best practices and the intricacies of Premarital Agreements.  Most recently, Irene presented to approximately 350 trusts and estates attorneys at the 46th Annual North Carolina Bar Association's Estate Planning and Fiduciary Law Conference about the importance of securing each client's financial future with a well-drafted Premarital Agreement.

Postnuptial Agreements

During marriage, issues can arise that require a well-crafted contract to address and ensure clarity, healthy communication, and solid expectations moving forward in the relationship.


Having a Postnuptial Agreement in place can be an effective tool to solidify concerns with regard to property issues, and especially estate-related rights for surviving spouses.


Irene has extensive experience negotiating and drafting Postnuptial Agreements. She will guide you on the law and educate you about the various options you should consider based on actual circumstances you have encountered in your marriage.  She will provide options for having a customized agreement in place to ensure stability and clarity on the issues so you can move forward in your relationship with ease and peace of mind.

Cohabitation Agreements

If you are living together, yet unmarried, North Carolina laws do not address your relationship. Without an agreement in place, unmarried cohabitants may have no guidelines if conflict arises during the relationship.   


Irene has extensive experience negotiating and drafting Cohabitation Agreements to ensure couples have appropriate expectations and an enforceable contract for purchasing real estate and living together.


Irene educated family lawyers on Cohabitation Agreements at the 2021 North Carolina Bar Association's program on family law contracts.

Irene as your Mediator

Irene is a certified by the NC Dispute Resolution Commission to serve as a neutral Mediator for parties in a confidential, problem-solving environment.  This alternative dispute resolution process is effective and has a high success rate for resolving disputes before lawsuits are filed, or while litigation is in progress to settle all issues and avoid the uncertain consequences of a Judge's ruling.  


While couples may have heard or think that Mediation is a "one stop shop" to obtain neutral legal advice, reach a deal, and walk out with a legally binding agreement, unfortunately, this is not an available option under any circumstances in our State, even if the Mediator and participants agree. 


The reason is that the NC Dispute Resolution Commission's Rules and Standards and the NC State Bar prohibit all mediators from: (1) providing any legal advice; and (2) drafting legally binding settlement documents.  Although Irene is allowed to and will prepare a detailed, written summary of terms agreed upon during your Mediation, it is important to know before you choose the Mediation process that the institutions that permit mediators to help couples reach agreements also limit the services all Mediators can provide when serving in this role. 


Knowing this, you may need to consider hiring your own attorney before or after the mediation to: (1) obtain legal advice and prepare you to negotiate at Mediation; and (2) use the written mediation summary Irene prepares during the mediation to draft legally binding settlement documents to formalize and finalize the agreement after the Mediation.  

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